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Let’s Talk Pre-Teens
This toolkit provides insight into the issues affecting our 9 to 12 year old children and offers practical ways to support them.
We started as a small in person support network in our local town.
We are now a free online resource for parents and carers wherever they are.
We support parents to help their young people thrive!
Becca Hewitt. Chair of the board
It is an increasingly complex world and parenting can be really tricky, Let’s Talk helps build on communication and support between children and young people and their families to help keep them safe.
We help parents and carers feel more confident supporting their children and young people. We share practical advice, simple strategies and useful information to help you understand the challenges young people face today.
We also help parents recognise when their child may need extra support and show them where to find the right help if it’s needed.
You can access our free information through:
We work closely with trusted experts from across the UK to make sure the information we provide is relevant, reliable and easy to understand. Our aim is to help you have positive conversations with your child, strengthen family relationships and support your young person to stay safe and thrive.
If you need more specialist support, we also signpost to trusted organisations and services that can help.
Building safer families, together.



We see delivery by agencies in response to risk which does not engage families in resolving the concerns. We believe we are more likely to get sustained outcomes when parents and carers are informed of the risk and feel empowered to make a difference.

So many times we hear the question “What are the parents doing about it?”. We believe in order for parents and carers to do something they need to, not only have an understanding of the issues and implications, but also be guided in how they can “do something about it”. We want to work with parents as equals.

We believe that parenting can be really challenging and that caring for a child or young person can be massively impacted by parents and carers own experience of trauma, shame and the complexities of modern life including poverty, abuse and health challenges. We also believe that every parent and carer wants the best for their children and young people but they may not, at that time, have the knowledge, skills or capacity to be able to offer as much support and guidance as other may feel they should.

The best chance of achieving positive sustainable outcomes is by establishing good communication, trust and healthy behaviours as early as possible for both the parents and the children and young people.

Children and young people learn from taking risks and learning from their experiences, this programme aims to give parents and carers the confidence to understand when risks become concerning and when to get advice for help, rather than encouraging parent and carers to shield their children and young people from experiences.

This programme covers topics that can be very scary to parents and carers so it is essential that we make every effort to ensure that information is shared in a way that provides information to increase awareness and empower people to be able to address the concerns rather than just create a culture of fear and helplessness

The programme is made up of different sessions targeted at different ages and covering different topics, we ensure that keeping communication and love at the heart of families is reinforced through all of our messaging.







Children and Young people are growing up in a continually changing culture which requires high levels of confidence for children and young people to be able to challenge the norms set by that culture which are often not understood by parents due to the significant culture change between generations with digital media now a massive part of children and young people’s daily lives.
We aim to provide solutions with an emphasis on tips and techniques for parents to help support and communicate with their young person. Whilst we make it clear that some of the ‘flags’ we share in relation to risk can also be signs of normal teenage development that if there is rapid change or a number of flags are seen that the parents may want to go to seek further support, so links are provided to trusted sources of specialist support.


Toolkit Download
This toolkit provides insight into the issues affecting our 9 to 12 year old children and offers practical ways to support them.

Toolkit Download
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